This is the first time that I’m going to share a video.
I am an emotional person. I easily cry with McDo commercials or movie trailers. So just imagine my tears as I watched this.
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Bullying is something I never want Wendy to experience. I regularly check up on her and ask her if anyone is bullying her. Thank God, she insists that no one is.
I have never been bullied, or if I were, it must have been subtle that I wouldn’t have noticed [I think each of us has been bullied in some way]. But this does not mean that I cannot feel for those who are being bullied. It IS a big problem in any society that leaves very deep wounds, some lasting years, in those who experience it.
Bullying for me entails a manifestation of something deeper, usually the old problem of discrimination…discrimination against homosexuals/bisexuals, against those who are handicapped, against those who are “fat” or “short” or “ugly” or “stupid,” and against those who seem to be too weak to fight back.
I feel so strongly against bullying because more than the physical abuse, it is the emotional torture that comes with bullying that leaves the most destructive wounds. And this can cause more pain than any other wound. And what’s more disheartening is that bullying happens usually to children…those who are weak and “untested” in these kinds of scenarios, that some have resorted, unfortunately, to ending their lives, seemingly wanting to just end the emotional torture. And for many of those who were brave enough to hold on, they bring with them the bad memories of bullying until they grow old. And this leaves a deep, negative mark in their lives.
As for Jonah Mowry, I salute you. Being bullied for 7 years can be and is certainly devastating. Your strength and will to live are certainly something to be proud of. May you continue to be strong.
I wish I can give all bullied kids a hug, if only to let them know that there are more people who love them than those weaklings who are bullying them, that there is more beauty to life than the hurtful words and/or punches they are receiving, and that, as Jonah said, they are stronger than that.
Let’s all hope, and pray, for the day bullying would stop. I’m crossing my fingers.